I WOULDN’T BLAME MEN WHO BEAT WOMEN- KAY CROWN

 

I WOULDN’T BLAME MEN WHO BEAT WOMEN

 

I have always believe that our understanding as individuals do go a long way in helping us especially when we are in a relationship. Yes, it may sound weird as I say I wouldn’t blame men who beat up women but then, I am not in support neither. It will always do a woman well not to always take advantage of a man when it comes to violence. Most violence occurs when a woman becomes too pushy.

 

When a woman refuse to understand what her husband cannot accept, then such woman cannot escape beating. Most women bank on A MAN SHOULDN’T LAY HANDS ON A WOMAN. In as much as every man wants to accept that statement, a woman should also know by consciously accept that there is a limit to what a man can take and every man level of patients differs. What A can take B may not.

 

Women actions and words especially towards a man should be done with caution, having it at the back of their man that a man can strike at any point in time. A man knows his limits and can tell what puts him off but a woman cannot determine a man’s limit and that why they should trade their words with caution.

 

Some of the things that make men strike can be a woman slaps a man even if the man is wrong, when she locks him on his shirts or stand in his way during a heated argument or insult his person in way that humiliates him. In such circumstances, it very hard a woman escapes beating. So, it is advisable women should keep their conscious mind always in check when fighting with a man. You may not know his limit but you can determine his capability in such times at the very moment.

 

When a man wants to leave when angry, let him go. Do not stand on his way. It has been proven psychologically that when a man walks always when angry, it helps him cool off and when he returns, he wouldn’t be as angry as he was. Strategically, a woman has save her head, even her life by letting him go. A woman has hand in a situation that got her beaten up by man which she could have avoided.

 

Finally, every woman should avoid being too pushy, avoid using your words to get at a man that has the potential of beating you up. Men are humans and you can help them by helping yourself. If you are to argue or fight, do it with your sense intact. Not beating a woman does not make a gentle man but the fear of God.

 

-KAY CROWN